

I heard this quote on a conference call today. It made me think!
“We must suffer from 1 of 2 pains: 1) The pain of Discipline 2) The pain of Regret. The difference is…Discipline weighs ounces, but Regret weighs TONS!!! ” Bill Hart – Coach at Building Champions.
Which pain do you suffer from? I don’t think I like my answer alot of the times!!!
Yesterday, I was cutting the grass at my in-laws’ home. As I pushed that lawn mower around for nearly two hours, you can imagine that the constant hum of the Briggs & Stratton engine can be either an annoyance, or for me, a calming effect. For me, the sound of the engine is so loud that I can actually hear myself think! It actually is when I hear myself the loudest. Someone can be yelling at me from just a few feet away and I can’t hear even their voice, but I can hear my own internal voice…loud and clear!!!
What are some of the things that I think about?
The problem is…by the time I am done cutting the grass, I have forgotten all of those thoughts and have not documented them. This could be the direct result of too many long nights in college!! In any event, I need to figure out a way to capture these thoughts. I can’t take action on them if I can’t remember them!!! I hope I am not the only person who suffers from this phenomenon called “Short-term memory loss brought on by many good times in college”!!
Maybe I need a peaceful place. I could take John Maxwell’s advice and have a ‘thinking chair’, but the problem with a comfy thinking chair is that they are better for NAPS!!
I guess I will have to start carrying a notebook or recorder with me and stop the lawnmower several times and write the ideas down, or speak them into the recorded. (There goes that idea of taking 5 minutes off each time!). However, if I were THINKING, it may actually be more beneficial if it took me 15 minutes LONGER to cut the grass, while capturing all of the thoughts…Hmmmm…
Questions for thoughts this week:
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Last night I was at my oldest son, Brendan’s, 5th grade promotion event. It was about 100 degrees in the gym with nothing but a couple fans moving around. It was HOT!!!
Until the 60 third graders stood up and sang their class song: My Wish by Rascal Flatts. As I watched my son, I got chill bumps up and down my arms – and a tear or two flowed down my cheek – they are welling up as I type this today. In case you haven’t heard it, here are the words to the chorus:
I just ‘graduated’ from Leadership Roanoke Valley. When we had our graduation dinner, someone in my group said “Stay in touch.” When you graduate from something, whether you ‘graduate’ from a a school, a job, a neighborhood, a city, or some other new start, one of the favorite ways to end the conversation is ‘stay in touch’. Too often, I say, “I’ll stay in touch”…and I don’t.
One of the things that I believe is that Life is about relationships, the rest is just details. However, if I don’t focus on the details of initiating, building, and maintaining relationships, then relationships suffer.
And so, here I am. Starting a ‘blog’. I don’t claim to be an expert on this, so I may miss some of the ‘details’. It is my goal with this blog, though, to share my story. It is built with YOU in mind. AND, it is built with ME in mind as well. With this blog, I hope to add value to your life, and in turn, you will respond with things that are on your heart as well.
Why the title “SiMPLE LEADERSHiP”? As I was dreaming this up, I looked on my nightstand at the two books I was currently reading and took a word from each. I will discuss the books more in the future. Those who know me well can probably guess one of the authors! You also know that leadership development and focus (aka, simple) are core values I live by.
If you are reading this, you have made an impact on my life in a positive way. It is my hope that you will ‘stay in touch’ by reading it. If you are moved, respond to it by clicking on the envelope or the ‘comments’ below. If you want to keep getting it, subscribe to it by clicking on ‘Posts’ below.
I want to be more ‘intentional’ at keeping in touch. This is just one tool for me to do that.
Question(s) for action:
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